Love and Mobile Phones

Feb 13, 2010 Author: admin | Filed under: Articles

There are many lovers and married couples today whose love for each other was made possible through mobile phones. Even I knew of several couples who have gotten on a serious relationship through their mobile phones, starting as text pal and later on to become husband and wife. A lady teacher whom I knew, and was already near being a spinster, bought for herself a mobile phone for the single purpose of making friends through text. I learned that only after a few weeks, she met with one of her text pal and from there on, became seriously engaged with the guy who was younger than her by almost 8 years. She believes however, that in love, age does not matter. Today, they are happily married and would soon be having a baby of their own. This is a happy love affair through the wonders of a mobile phone.

But there are love stories brought about by mobile phones through its texting facility that did not end happily. Take the case of a department store employee whose text pal for only two months lured her to a motel, make love to her and promised to make her his wife. Because of the promise of marriage, the woman continued seeing her text pal who is now her alleged fiancée until one day, a fat woman knocked on the room of the motel where they were making love. And when they opened the door, the woman furiously attacked the department store employee until she was knocked unconscious and hospitalized. The fat woman happened to be the wife of her text pal cum fiancée. Today, she is now a single mom to two beautiful twin daughters.

There are today many stories related to love and friendship made over the mobile phone either in voice or through text messages. In most cases, text messaging or SMS are normally used by two people in love because of the discreet nature of text massages or SMS. But for people who have the money and space, love messages are normally done through voice calls in their mobile phones. Actually, mobile phones have made possible easy communication between two persons in whatever circumstances they are in. Through text or SMS, they can easily get in touch with one another to express their feelings, to one another. A boy can text her classmate he has a crush on and express his feelings. Or a girl, can easily get the mobile phone number of a class stand out she has got some feelings for and convey to him that she cares for him.

Before the advent of mobile phones and SMS or text messaging service, guys would be hard put to express their hidden emotion to girls of their dreams. They are simply afraid to clear out of their throats those 3 words that would express their love for the girl. But with text messages or SMS, a guy can discreetly let the girl know about his feelings for her and if the girl has a feeling for the boy, then she can text back and tell him that the feeling is mutual. One reason why sales of mobile phones are always on the rise is because of SMS or text messaging service. This mode of communication is simply ideal for love birds. They can send and receive love notes and messages for their eyes only. Because they do not converse in their mobile phones, what ever love messages they send for each other will always be confidential, unless somebody else tinkers with their phones.

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What is the True Meaning of Friendship

Feb 5, 2010 Author: admin | Filed under: Articles

There exist friends that are good for you and friends that are bad for you. Sorting out who is best for you is as simple and reading this list of qualities and seeing who exist.

1. They want what is best for the other

A good friend wants only your best. If you start to see success in what is your life’s purpose and your dreams, a good friend is supportive and no jealous of you or envious. I have a good friend online on Facebook and she is never going to rise to the level of preaching as I am, yet she is happy just to be in my corner and encourage me. My friend is always encouraging me and giving me feedback on my articles and sermons I post online.

2. Show Sympathy

When you go through hard times a good friend is there to offer support and sympathy. They are not quick to tell you to get a grip on your emotions but they are willing to see your problem and show that they care about the fact that you are hurt. In the past few weeks I have been attacked online and called a false prophet and my friends have rallied around me, read and watched was what said and given me support.

3. Honesty

A person that is a good friend won’t be lying to you. If you are asking for advice about something important they won’t be saying something sounds good or looks good just to make you happy. Whether it is good news or bad news, a good friend will tell you the truth.

4. Don’t Judge

A good friend will support you in all areas. They will know that you are human with human floors like any person. They will accept your short falls and they will not be judging you all the time like other people. A good friend loves you for who you are.

5. Offer Advice

A friend that is good for you will offer their advice from time to time in your life. As a friend they have the ability to see you closer and know your thoughts and desires and from time to time they can see a better way for you to do things. In these times they are able to offer you good advice and when they are a good friend most times its advice that makes a difference.

6. Support and Listen to You

There is such friends as fine weather friends. They are people that are with you when everything is going fine. But we all need friends that are still around when the chips are down. A good friend will help hold you up in hard times and support you in many ways. They are there to listen to you in good and tough times and will simply listen for a long time without feeling the need to control you or tell you their opinion. A good friend is rare but it is better to have a true friend like this than many friends that don’t make the grade.

7. Sharing Themself.

A good friend will introduce you to their world. They will share you with their other friends and introduce you to their family. There is nothing that a goo friend will not do for you. You are their friend and there is nothing that they will hold back.